Whatever your religious beliefs, culture, or traditions, we know that deciding to separate or get divorced is a huge step to take.
It is important that you have someone by your side who specialises in civil and Jewish divorce law during this difficult time. This way, your solicitor will be able to understand your needs and how they can work with you to achieve them.
Understanding the Jewish divorce process
Jewish divorce contains both a civil and a religious element. The civil aspect is covered by UK law in the same way it is for anyone going through a divorce, i.e. there has been an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.
The Ketubah – the formal marriage contract under Jewish law – can only be terminated by a Get, which is essentially a Jewish divorce. The process involves the husband applying for a Get, which he then grants to his wife, who must formally agree. You must obtain a Get to be considered truly divorced and to be free to remarry later. Without a Get, either party would be regarded as Agun or Agunah, or ‘chained.’ Additionally, children born in a new relationship where a Get has not been obtained may be considered illegitimate.
We understand that this may seem confusing and emotionally distressing. We will be at your side throughout the process, providing you with the assistance and expertise you need to get through without feeling overwhelmed.
Child arrangements in Jewish divorce
In any case of divorce, parents may be concerned about how to maintain positive relationships with their children after the separation.
Jewish parents are not immune to these problems and may face different challenges, linked to their Jewish values, traditions, and practices where family ties are extremely important.
Many Jewish parents want their children to continue to participate in Jewish festivals with them. Further, many families wish to celebrate Shabbat together, as it is an important time each week for parents and children to spend quality time together.
Ultimately, the focus should be on the welfare of the children while respecting and accepting each other’s traditions and level of religiosity. It is crucial to consider the children’s best interests rather than focusing on your own preferences.
If you and your ex-partner cannot agree on child arrangements, you should speak with a specialist solicitor about the next steps. Your solicitor will be able to discuss arrangements with your ex-partner or their solicitor to reach an agreement.
Do you need help with a Jewish divorce?
Alexandra Goldrein, our expert Jewish divorce solicitor, has significant experience in acting for clients with international and religious elements. Alexandra also has particular expertise in providing advice in high net-worth divorce cases, involving complicated financial issues, including businesses and pensions, which can be one of the most significant assets in a marriage.
“The solicitor who stayed with me throughout the whole case, Alex, you have been wonderful, not just as a very smart solicitor but as a person. Thank you for everything, I was lucky that you represented me.” – R
As an expert in divorce law, Alexandra Goldrein will also be able to ensure that any child arrangement order or parenting plan deals with the nuances of the religion, with her knowledge of how the Jewish festivals fall and the intricacies of the Jewish Sabbath.
At Slater Heelis, we understand that there is not a ‘one size fits all’ approach to managing child arrangements during a divorce. Our team can help guide you through the process and advise you on reaching an agreement that is right for you and your family.
Whether you need help in navigating a Jewish divorce or guidance in managing child arrangements, we will be with you every step of the way.
If you’d like to talk to one of our team members, fill out a contact form or give us a call on 0330 111 3131.